publication date: Sep 5, 2008
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author/source: Jamie Smart - www.saladltd.co.uk
-In relationships, people often put up barriers that prevent themselves from having the kind of person and relationship they would like.
-These more than likely reveal limiting beliefs – they feel that it's not possible at some level.
-Pacing their reality, then asking outcome questions that presuppose they can have what they say they can't is a way of moving them beyond their perceived limits.
-A line of inquiry such as: “I know you can't have that, but what would that give you that you wouldn't otherwise have?”
-”Why is that important?”
-”How would you know if that wasn't true?”
-These questions are way of moving them in the direction of what they want regardless of what they presently think they can and can't have.
-When someone you're working with appears to stop breathing, as is common when they hit a limiting emotion, get them to start breathing again properly in order to release that emotion.
This clip was taken from Salad’s Better Relationships from the Inside Out Seminar with Jamie Smart. You can read more about the next Better Relationships from the Inside Out Seminar here
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