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Experience shows that most failures in relationships come from misunderstanding. The ability to gain rapport with others and to know what is important to them is integral in having a successful relationship with them. This is equally true in business as it is in families and couples. Whenever other people are involved, you will need good strategies and skills to manage, nurture and grow the relationship.

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  Video: Demo - The Power of Watching & Listening - Jamie Smart
Jan 18, 2012
Watch and listen to people you will be surprised what you can learn. Watch and listen to Jamie demonstrate these skills in a coaching context.
  Video: Effortless Evolution #2 - Achieved vs. Innate Wellbeing
Jul 19, 2011
"Achieving" wellbeing is the focus of many self help books but, as Jamie Smart explains, there is an even better way to go about experiencing wellbeing. 
  Video: Effortless Evolution #3 - Relationships and The 'Invisible Factor'
Jul 19, 2011
What is the invisible factor - the awareness that makes big difference in determining the quality of our relationships? Allow Jamie to explain...
  NLP & Relationships: Flirt Workout – Peta Heskell
May 21, 2011

Peta Heskell offers some sample flirt workouts from her book Flirt Coach in this relationship tip.
  Audio: The New Way to Success, Relationships & Happiness - Jamie Smart & Elese Coit
Jan 16, 2011
In this interview, Elese Coit discusses happiness at length with Jamie Smart. Learn exactly what the three steps are and how they can transform your life.
  Article: NLP – On Being a Raw Beginner - Part Two – Peta Heskell
Nov 24, 2010
Peta Heskell has some valuable advice for new NLP practitioners in Part Two of two parts.
  Article: NLP – On Being a Raw Beginner - Part One – Peta Heskell
Nov 9, 2010

Peta Heskell looks back on some of the mistakes she made as a raw beginner at NLP.
  Video: Story - Rapport is a Naturally Occurring Phenomena - Yield & Notice – Jamie Smart
Oct 14, 2010
Watch and listen to people then subtly match what they do... This technique offers a plethora of ways of encouraging rapport to emerge and flourish.
  Video: Rapport & NLP - Part Two - Mind & Body are One System - Jamie Smart
Oct 14, 2010
Mind and body combine in communication so paying attention to your nonverbal channels is just as important as the verbal ones.
  Video: Rapport & NLP - Part One - Jamie Smart
Oct 14, 2010
Jamies shows in this, the first of 3 videos on rapport, just what what rapport is and how it can be created.
  Article: On Expertise and Relationships – Peta Heskell
Sep 1, 2010
Peta Heskell explains that being authentic is a process of accepting yourself for who you are, even whilst others might be looking for your advice and calling you an ‘expert’.
  Video: Trance Techniques - Useful in Almost Every Communication - Jamie Smart
Aug 20, 2010
Trance language is like normal language on steroids - you can get so much more power from ordinary words when you use them the right ways.
  Article: How to Deal with People Who Annoy You – Jamie Smart
Aug 20, 2010
What if people who most annoy us are actually giving us a gift? Jamie Smart explains in this article, and shows how to use that gift.
  Video: Human History - A World of Things & Experience - Jamie Smart
Aug 4, 2010
Taking other perspectives is great - just be sure to realise which is your perspective!
  NLP & Relationships: Flirt Workout – Peta Heskell
Jul 14, 2010

Peta Heskell offers some sample flirt workouts from her book Flirt Coach in this relationship tip.
  Video: Clean Language Demo I - Using Clean Language for Clarification - Judy Rees
Jun 17, 2010
Get to the heart of matters quickly with clean language. Warning: May require you to listen to other people more closely.
  Video: The Distinction Between Control & Influence - Jamie Smart
May 12, 2010
Influence is the ethical approach, well, influencing others. Control is soemthing else altogether.
  Video: Demo - Eliciting Deep Values - Jamie Smart
Apr 8, 2010
People act and think according to their values. When you know their values you may understand the person better than they do.
  NLP & Relationships: Attracting Women from the Inside Out – Jamie Smart
Apr 6, 2010
Following on from his article about better relationships for a female audience, Jamie Smart turns his attention to what men need to know to attract women authentically.
  Video: Listening vs Hearing - Jamie Smart
Apr 1, 2010
People think they're listening when actual fact they're hearing. As Jamie explains, there is a big difference between the two.